Sunday, October 17, 2010

October 17, 2010--Personal Ministry

ANNOUNCEMENT: MEN'S NIGHT OUT--THIS TUESDAY, OCTOBER 19, 2010 AT THE HOME OF BO MILES. BO HAS SOME VENISON AND DEER SAUSAGE THAT HE IS DONATING TO THE CAUSE. IT WILL BE A GREAT EVENING OF FUN AND FELLOWSHIP. BO WILL BE SENDING AN E-MAIL WITH HIS ADDRESS. I HOPE ALL OF YOU GUYS WILL MAKE AN EFFORT TO JOIN US. I FEEL SURE YOU WILL FIND IT TO BE AN ENJOYABLE TIME TOGETHER.

PERSONAL MINISTRY
Andy Stanley talked about another factor that he has identified as a contributor to the growth of "Big Faith" in our lesson today. That factor was called "Personal Ministry." Andy based today's discussion on the narrative in Matthew 14: 13-22. You will recall this story as one of the times in which Jesus miraculously provided for the feeding of more than 5,000 people on a desolate hillside. As you read the scripture, you will see that the disciples asked Jesus about sending the people away so that they could go into the nearby villages to buy food. Jesus responded with a directive for the disciples to feed the people. As Andy stated, He said, "You feed'em." Reading the scripture futher, we find that the disciples responded the same way you and I often respond when God gives us a job. They started listing the reasons why they could not feed these people. They were in the middle of nowhere. They did not have the resources. They were incapable of feeding so many people. Yet, they, like us, overlooked an important component of the equation. They overlooked the supernatural power of God. Despite the limited resources, the crowd was fed and left-overs were picked up after the meal. How did this happen? The disciples did what they knew how to do--distribute the food baskets--and God multiplied the food to provide more than enough.

This is the lesson for each of us. When God asks us to do something, we should do whatever it is that we know how to do and depend on God to take care of our insecurities, lack of knowledge, and other limitations. When God is involved, our limitations will not matter. He will take care of any shortcomings on our part.

God builds our faith through challenging opportunities for personal ministry--allowing us to serve others even though we may feel unprepared and inadequate. The key in personal ministry is simply to do what we know how to do, and trust God to do what only He can do. While personal ministry may mean teaching a Sunday School Class or coaching an Upward Bound Football Team or some other church ministry, it may also refer to a one-on-one witness with a non-believer or could refer to a charitable act in a hostile environment. God can call us to action in any of these situations. Remember, personal ministry is a grower of faith.

NEXT WEEK'S LESSON: PIVOTAL CIRCUMSTANCES

Sunday, October 10, 2010

October 10 Private Disciplines

In today's lesson, Andy Stanley introduced us to the concept of "private disciplines." Private disciplines include those activities that God expects us to perform in the privacy of our own home or in the confidential pages of our own bank account or in a place where our actions are not advertised for the praise of others.

Andy points out that we trust God for everything that happens from the time we take our last breath. However, such trust is not difficult since we really have no choice. Since we have no control over what happens after we take our last breath, it is relatively easy to say, " I trust you, God to take care of everything after I take my last breath." However, Andy asks who we trust from the present until we take our last breath. Do we trust God explicitly during that time? Since much of our energy during that time is directed toward making a living, earning money, and supporting a lifestyle, Andy suggests that it is not surprising that God expects us to show our trust in Him by giving generously of our physical blessings. However, as the scripture directs, our giving should be done in the privacy and confidentiality of our own home or our own bank account and should not be done in a way that brings attention or recognition to us as the giver. Since time is our most valuable resource, Andy also suggests that the allocation of a daily quiet time with God is also a private discipline for which God will reward His children. If we spend time in prayer, talking with our Heavenly Father and spend time studying His Word, Andy points our the promise of scripture in which Jesus tells us that we will be rewarded for such activity. No, we don't engage in such action to gain a reward. Just the same, Jesus promises that the Lord will reward those who do these things.

We discussed private disciplines and ways that we were or were not taught private disciplines in our own childhood. We also considered ways in which we could encourage our own children to engage in the practice of private disciplines.
Andy Stanley suggests the following things occur as a result of us practicing private disciplines:
* Growth--even if we engage in these activities with a bad activity, we will see growth
* Freedom--we can experience freedom from the debilitating debate of whether or not to give, freedom from the argument of not having enough time, and freedom from prioritization of our activities in order to spend time in the Word--these decisions are already made when we practice private disciplines. They are part of our lifestyle.
* Peace--the practice of private disciplines brings peace into our lives. The private disciplines eventually become a joy to practice rather than an unpleasant task.

Let's all consider our own practice of private disciplines this week and evaluate whether or not we can improve these practices in our own lives. Best wishes for a great week.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

October 3--Providential Relationships

During today's lesson, Andy Stanley discussed the importance of providential relationships in growing one's faith. Andy argued that there are no "neutral" relationships. All relationships either enhance our spiritual walk with the Lord or they detract from it. For this reason, as parents, we often attempt to manipulate and influence the relationships that our children create and nurture. We recognize the influence of relationships and we seek those relationships for our children that we perceive to be positive in nature.

Andy Stanley also points out the importance in placing our children in environments in which they have other adults speaking wisdom and influence into their lives. As we discussed, if your children have not already concluded that your advice is not always sound, they soon will. In such cases, it is important to have other Godly adults in whom your children are comfortable and confident and in whom you are comfortable and confident. Andy pointed out that waiting until your child is in the eleventh grade to place him/her in such an environment is too late. During our class discussion, we talked about the practice of some of our class in which they have purposefully attempted to create trusting, intimate relationships with other Christian couples in order to create other adult resources for their kids in a time of need when the kids may not have confidence in his/her own parents or when the kid simply feels the need to seek counsel from someone other than his/her parent. We also talked about the accountability that can be created among parents who have developed such a relationship with other parents. The idea of picking up the phone and calling a parent of a child who is observed speeding or driving recklessly requires a relationship of complete trust and confidence.

Finally, it is important to remember those providential relationships in our own lives in which someone has helped us to grow spiritually. I remembered the men and women who served as Sunday School Teachers and Vacation Bible School Teachers when I was a young kid. I continue to remember a special pastor when I was a young deacon in another church. All of these people were providential relationships for me.

In addition, I believe that Cindy was brought into my life as a providential relationship. She has taught me much about Christian parenthood, appreciation and respect for those who may be different, ways to disagree with people and still treat them with respect and dignity, and she has been a partner in Christian growth as we have worked toward spiritual maturity together.

Who has served as a providential relationship in your life? For whom have you served as a providential relationships? Indeed, providential relationships play a critical role in growing our faith. I hope you will think about those who play such a role in your life and I hope that you will be open and willing to serve in such a role for others as the Lord uses you.

Have a great week.